I want to give MPlayer a window style where, when it starts (opens up a window), the window should pop up and be on top of other windows (normal behavior), but I want it to NOT acquire keyboard focus. Of course, if I click it explicitly with a mouse, I do want it to acquire focus as normal. I just do not want the window to get focus just because it popped up.
The helps when I am doing something and at the same time show short cartoons to my kids.